This week has involved a bit of overwhelm for me after getting back from Thailand.
Having had a little think about where it was coming from,
I realised it was all down to COMPARISON.
Comparing myself to my fellow guru members,
I was panicking that I hadn't taken action on my new website, new product suite, new content, blah, blah, blah.
Actively having conversations with myself though,
I discovered that it wasn't serving me to compare my progress to others.
We all work differently, at our own rate.
In fact I've been working on putting the systems
in place so I can concentrate on taking action.
So today I wanted to talk to you about doing the same.
It's human nature to compare ourselves to others.
Whatever comparison that may be.
You look to others and see that:
Everybody has a struggle in some form or other,
And most people are comparing one aspect of themselves or their lives to somebody else.
Comparison does us no favours at all.
In fact, it stops us embracing who we are and appreciating our own amazingness.
Comparison leads humans into threat mode.
Which leads us to lots of negative emotions.
Essentially, it is like stabbing yourself inside.
Nobody else is doing the comparison.
Remember we are all on our own journey.
We are all unique
Our pathway is different to the person's next to us
So try not to compare their road to yours.
Embrace the path that you're on and make it the best path for YOU.
Lots of love,
P.S. Today is the final chance to join our Bootcamp programme at the current price plan before our prices increase. It's our final intake of the year.....
Ellen Murray: spreading hope, self-belief and empowerment to real women.